Location: Birmingham
Role: Alpha Pup
Member Since: 2018
Favourite Gear: Custom red leather hood and matching Alpha collar
Welcome back to Meet the Pack, our regular feature where we get to know members of the Society of Pups community. This month we’re chatting with Pup Titan, an experienced Alpha Pup from Birmingham who has spent years helping organise local socials, welcoming newcomers, and supporting the growth of the community throughout the Midlands.
Tell us a little about yourself.
I’m Titan, a 41-year-old Alpha Pup based in Birmingham. Outside of the community I work in project management, which probably explains why I enjoy organising things so much. I love travelling, visiting new events around the UK, and helping bring people together.
Most weekends you’ll either find me attending a social somewhere, planning the next meetup, or convincing friends to join me for another bowling night.
What is your pup name and how did you choose it?
The name Titan came from friends rather than myself.
When I first joined the community I was often the person helping organise events, giving lifts, introducing people to one another, and generally making sure everyone was looked after. Someone jokingly said I was carrying the whole pack on my shoulders “like a Titan.”
The nickname stuck and eventually became my pup name.
How long have you been part of the pup community?
Around seven years now.
It’s incredible how much the community has grown during that time. When I first started attending events there were far fewer local groups and opportunities to meet people. Today there are communities across the country organising everything from coffee meetups to large-scale socials.
It’s been amazing to watch.
What first introduced you to pup culture?
Like many people, I discovered it online.
Initially I was fascinated by the creativity and individuality. Every pup seemed to have their own style, personality, and story.
What really drew me in though was seeing the friendships people had built. The sense of community felt genuine and welcoming, and I wanted to be part of that.
What attracted you to the community?
The people.
I’ve always believed that communities succeed because of the people within them, not because of logos, gear, or social media profiles.
The pup community was one of the few places where complete strangers would go out of their way to welcome newcomers and help them feel included.
That kindness made a huge impression on me.
Do you identify with a particular role?
Definitely Alpha.
For me, being an Alpha isn’t about authority or being in charge. It’s about responsibility.
It’s about helping create environments where people feel safe, included, and valued. It’s about leading by example rather than expecting others to follow you.
Some of the best Alphas I’ve met are also some of the kindest and most approachable people I’ve ever known.
What three words best describe you as a pup?
Reliable.
Protective.
Supportive.
Do you have a favourite piece of gear?
My red leather collar.
It was a gift from close friends after organising my first large community event. Every time I wear it I’m reminded of the friendships that made those events possible.
The sentimental value means far more than the gear itself.
What does being a pup mean to you personally?
Being a pup gives me permission to switch off from everyday responsibilities and focus on what matters most: friendship, connection, and community.
Life can be stressful. We all have jobs, responsibilities, deadlines, and commitments.
The community provides a space where people can relax, enjoy themselves, and be accepted exactly as they are.
That is incredibly valuable.
What has been your favourite experience within the community so far?
Organising a regional social that brought together pups from across the Midlands.
Watching people arrive as strangers and leave having made new friends was incredibly rewarding.
By the end of the evening there were plans for future meetups, local Packs forming, and people exchanging contact details.
That is exactly what community should be about.
What do you enjoy most about being part of a Pack?
The sense of belonging.
Knowing that there are people who genuinely care about each other, celebrate successes together, and support one another through difficult times creates something special.
A strong Pack isn’t built on hierarchy.
It’s built on trust.
Have you made any lasting friendships through the community?
Without question.
Some of my closest friends today are people I met through the pup community. We’ve travelled together, attended Pride events together, celebrated birthdays together and supported one another through significant life events.
The friendships are real and lasting.
If you could organise your dream pup event, what would it be?
A national community weekend.
I’d love to see local Packs from every corner of the country come together for a weekend of social activities, workshops, charity fundraising, games, entertainment, and community building.
Something that showcases everything positive about our community.
Quick Fire Round
Favourite snack?
Salt and vinegar crisps.
Favourite board game?
Catan.
Favourite TV show?
The Traitors.
Cats or dogs?
Dogs.
Beach walk or city adventure?
City adventure.
Coffee, tea or energy drink?
Coffee.
What advice would you give to someone completely new to the pup community?
Take your time and don’t compare yourself to others.
You don’t need expensive gear.
You don’t need to know all the terminology.
You don’t need to fit a particular image.
Just be yourself.
Introduce yourself, attend events, talk to people, and allow friendships to develop naturally.
Most members remember what it felt like to be new and will be happy to help.
What would you like to see more of within the community?
More local groups and more social activities that aren’t centred solely around nightlife.
Board game clubs, sports teams, walking groups, coffee socials, charity projects and community events help bring people together in meaningful ways.
The stronger our local communities become, the stronger the wider community becomes.
Finally, what does “Play. Connect. Belong.” mean to you?
To me it’s a reminder of why communities exist.
Play reminds us to enjoy life.
Connect reminds us to build relationships.
Belong reminds us that nobody should have to face life alone.
When communities get those three things right, incredible things happen.
“Leadership isn’t about standing in front of the Pack. It’s about making sure nobody gets left behind.”– Pup Titan
Thanks to Pup Titan for sharing his story with The Barking Post.
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Play. Connect. Belong. 🐾
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